[a_squirrel]

It is some kind of insult....

Hey, I just realized the actually definition to love someone.

Love means being patient even when you'd like the other person to hurry up already! Love means being kind when being mean might seem more satisfying.
Love means not being jealous -- of your spouse or of others.
Love means not being pompous or inflated, not thinking yourself so important.
Love means not being rude but rather speaking and acting with courtesy to everyone.
Love means caring about others before one's own self-interests.
Love means not showing one's temper, no matter how angry you are.
Love means not brooding, not holding on to hurts.
Love means not gloating when the other is wrong or makes a mistake.